Describe the solution you'd like

When using Style/OptionalBooleanParameter, it would be nice to define a set of allowed methods as used via Style/NestedParenthesizedCalls, for example. For instance, when metaprograming, it's common to want to use Object#respond_to_missing?:

def respond_to_missing? name, include_private = false
  # Implementation details...
end

The use of include_private = false, in this case, is what causes this cop to flag the code as a violation. I agree, it is. ...but this is a standard library method which is out of my control as an implementer.

Describe alternatives you've considered

I've been able temporarily work around this issue by using an exclude:

Style/OptionalBooleanParameter:
  Exclude:
    - "path/to/implementation"

This is not ideal as I'd rather not exclude the entire file but ignore a bad practice within the standard library that is out of my control instead.