When I’m at work I can’t wait to get home to work on personal projects only to get home with no energy and just procrastinate and/or play games entire weekend/afternoon.
Think is i also feel extremely guilty if i try to relax and do nothing, but at the same time able to understand that i need time to chill, just can’t get in a positive mindset about it. Am i the only one?

Feel like that almost everyday between work and Uni.. so no you are not alone..

That's the ultimate goal of work, isn't it? To make as little money as possible and to suck your soul out of you.

Yeah I def feel you. Hard to break out of this cycle. The imperfect way I try to fix it is to go hard at work for 5-6 hours instead of 8. Gives you an extra couple hours of unwind every day

Same here. I feel bad about not being productive in my free time all the time.

No, you're not alone... Indeed that's the reason why I'm thinking to do something different than sw development for living.

Find hobbies which are different from your job. If you start to hate/be bored by your job, you won't be able to escape to and enjoy your hobbies at home otherwise, because they'll be the same/work as reminder.

Happened to me. Did not believe it 5 years back, when a friend told me the same.

&& yes, requires to stick your head out of the comfort zone and often try something completely new and unfamiliar (not an easy task for most IT ppl)

I had to open and look at the username to check if this was me.

You're definitely not alone. That basically describes my whole life.